Let's begin at the beginning...

Consider the 4 Phases EACH sex naturally gives and receives...

Mothering (Attracting to herself, affectionate regard)

Fathering (Circulatory affectionate connecting and sharing)

Female Nature Nurturing

Affection based, Eros degrees enhancing Female growth regarding support

Male Nature Nurturing

Affection based, Eros degrees enhancing, Male growth regarding support

Mating (Female pheromones seducing a male DNA match)

Mating ( Male drive to impregnate female DNA matches)

Marriage ( family arrangements) or supported Independence

Lifestyle choice (Circulatory supporter, including flexible family arrangements, single life, and / or settling down)

Now... Consider what conflating these phases (especially with socially constructed and programmed goals and expectations) may cause us to feel or think OUT of natural context ...

And worse, what missing one or more phases can cause, emotionally! ...

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General survival bonding

Personal relating bondings

General reproduction drives

Personal Love

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Humans were designed to both give and receive caringly loving feelings to both get through and appreciate the many stages of development and environmental accommodation it takes for biology to get us to the independent, caring beings our Positive Identities can offer today! So why would we rather abandon the GOOD Eros feelings life gave us to enjoy life and motivate meaningful relating with each other without developing it; so ready to condemn others trying to share it as a normal part of regarding our individual rights, that presumptions abounded, and accusations rained down, instead of trying to consider what it meant to whom!?

@ 0-7

@ 7-17+

@ 13/18-50s

@ 7/18-life

[@ natural / societal inception-length]

We often find ourselves lost in an obscurity of conflated meanings emanating from a misty background with ominous clouds rolling in, all threatening to douse the light of the only thing we have left to make sense of them ... not emotional demands, but reasoning minds!

So let's hypothesize by putting some of this human puzzle's parts on the table to work with

The Four Phases...

of Natural Human Development Relating

The Four Phases

Of Natural Human Development Relating

Plato, The Second

R - 1 Phases Chart